Taken from: www.madpsychmum.com |
A brief description of the four parenting styles could be:
Authoritarian Parenting: A large amount of control. Parent has a large amount of control over their children, and their children mainly feel loved only when their parent approves of them.
Authoritative Parenting: A healthy balance of love and control. Children feel loved and accepted unconditionally, while knowing exactly what is expected of them by their parent.
Permissive Parenting: There is love in the home, but no sense of control or structure in the home. Parent feels it is wrong, or may feel unable, to set up rules of conduct and expectations. Children feel loved because they get to do whatever they want.
Uninvolved Parenting: There is no sense of control or love in the home. Children do not feel loved because they have no sense of belonging in their home and do not feel loved by their parent. In these homes the parents are often gone, so there is little to no control, structure, or expectations. Children may feel lost with that lack of attentiveness and concern.
Taken from: departments.weber.edu |
Authoritarian parenting is considered to be an more desirable parenting style because it sets up a parent to be in a position of authority over their child. While at the same time this parenting style can be undesirable because it can lead towards the children not respecting or loving their parent depending upon how harsh their parent is.
Authoritative parenting, which is similar in name and meaning to Authoritarian parenting, allows more flexibility than the Authoritarian parenting style does. Authoritative parenting lets the child know clearly where the parent and the child are in their separate roles. It also allows for a sense of responsibility from both while nurturing a loving relationship between a parent and their child. This is considered to be the most desirable parenting style because it allows for love, control, structure, and healthy expectations from both the parent and their child.
Taken from: blog.leb.umn.edu |
As you ponder which parenting style you follow, be fair to yourself and allow for flexibility and change when needed. Who we are, is always a work in progress, and we always have the chance to change ourselves, and our lives, when needed.
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